To be a cross dresser was not my goal when I started my program of breast enlargement. But within a couple of months of starting my regime of herbal supplements and breast cream, I felt it necessary to start wearing a bra when I was in public. And in that one way, at least, I have become a cross dresser.

Over the months, I have been called ma'am several times even though I was wearing the same male clothes, shirt and pants I have always worn. The curves of my breast say "woman" to those who just glance at me. The other day, my wife and I were getting into the car and the guy parked next to us, said, "Have a nice day ladies."

Without really planning on it, the truth is that people are going to see me as a woman, sometimes, even if I am not dressed in that role. So should I start wearing women's clothes, or should I say, MY FEMININE CLOTHES, from time to time? Why not! I do have a feminine side and I do have feminine breasts. It is right for me to express that femininity. NOTE: I still love making love with my wife. And have the usual heterosexual reactions to women I see here and there.

What is Cross Dressing (Also spelled crossdressing)?

Crossdressers are individuals who wear clothing and take on an appearance and behavior considered by a given culture to be appropriate for another gender not one's own. In western society, a cross dresser would be a man dressing as a woman or a woman dressing as a man. The vast majority of cross dressers are men. And it is estimated that, at least, 3 percent of the population are practicing crossdressers and wear transvestite clothing.

Why are Men Cross Dressing?

Initually, many men find that crossdressing provides a sense of arousal or sexual excitement. Over time, other factors become more important, such as expressing the feminine sense of self and temporarily escaping from the masculine gender norms - the pressures of the male role. For some, cross dressing is a hobby, a way to relax. For others, it is the stepping towards becoming a woman both physically and emotionally - a cross dressing transformation to another gender.

Women get treated differently then men do,in daily interactions in society. There are adventures waiting and a chance of inner fullfilment for those who cross dress. New insights occur about oneself and the human condition in general.

Being a Successful Cross Dresser

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When your goal is to be totally accepted as a woman, there is a lot of new things to learn and unlearn. There is the whole issue of fashion to consider, of course. But of more importance is wearing those clothes as a "woman." How do you walk, move your hands, feminize your face, modulate your voice and so on? You don't want to look like a man in drag, but as if your were born a genetic woman.

There are many issues to deal with: Having smooth female-like skin; making-up your face based on the reality of what your face is like now; smelling like a woman using real female pheromones, enhancing your cleavage; hiding your male bulge and overall, not looking silly!

Exploring my Feminine Side I am pleased with the results of my natural breast enlargement. As I write this, my breast are still filling in and growing. One of these days, I will want to showcase them. How far will I explore the female role, I don't know, but I am prepared to be genuine. When I am ready I will want to look, walk and talk like a woman.

Author's Note: The spelling of the term crossdress appears to be influx, I have seen it written as two words: cross dress; hyphenated: cross-dress and as one word: crosssdress. I have used alternate spellings throughout this article.